Mankind! An example has been made, so listen to it carefully. Those whom you call upon besides Allah are not even able to create a single fly, even if they were to join together to do it. And if a fly steals something from them, they cannot get it back. How feeble are both the seeker and the sought! (Surat al-Hajj, 73)It is Allah (God) Who gives human beings their strength and intelligence. Everything a person says, “I am doing” is actually created in destiny by Allah. This awareness of faith stemming from fear and love of Allah bestows an extraordinary strength on Muslims. And since we place our trust in Him, their strength can never be shaken. And even if we make a mistake we are comfortable in the knowledge that Allah has created everything for the best in destiny. Indeed, as indicated in the verse,
be t“… It may be that you hate something when it is good for you and it may that you love something when it is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know,” (Surat al-Baqara, 216)
we should never forget that there is something auspicious in all things that appear to be adverse, for which reason we must always look at matters through the eyes of wisdom.As a normal imperfect human never ever worry to move forward..keep moving, its okay if we have to crawl despite of walk,run or fly since they said life is like a wheel.right?sometimes we at the top and sometimes we at the bottom,lying on the road, but for whatever reason, we should't stop even for seconds because the wheel is still rolling.it ll never stop rolling!just go.
We are also very different .i mean everybody.eventhough a monochorionic monoamniotic twins,they born and live their life differently.so the way we gain something also not as same as others.Probably someone got what they love easily but someone else have to struggle on it..that is not the matters. try the best as we could then we ll satisfied..
today i reached the age of independence.they said.really? that was not so cool for me act.it just figures.nevertheless becomes older is a fact.for some reason we have to be strong deal with unpredictable things in future.life can be dull, difficult,and complicated..whatever it is,lets look at the bright side of it..life can be very interesting..challenging and sometimes there's opportunity!
okay..just make it this one as an analogy..
there is a story about two salesman who were sent to a country to sell shoes.one came back to the headquaters and told the boss that there would be no bussiness opportunity there because no one wore shoes...while the other saleman told their boss that the company was going to make milions because they could sell to practically every person in that country since no one wore shoes! Amazing, isn't it??..'
it is about how we look at things, don't you agree?like one man's poison ,is another man's medicine kind of thing..
HELEN KELLER had this wise advise to give:
I admit, when one door closes, another opens.But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us.
as humans, the feeling of regret is unavoidable, especially when what we really wanted is right in front of our eyes- but, somehow,for whatever reason, we had to let it go.yup..lets we note and reflect on the things that Allah has shown us as errors.again look matters through the eyes of wisdom. try to change ourself and improve our moral virtues in order to behave in the manner most compatible with the Qur’an.insyaAllah.if unable to do all, don't leave all. In a nutshell, our consciences are at ease since we strive to be able to hope for Allah’s good pleasure.~just edutaning.
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